Fyi, before I start, I want everyone who reads this to know that this isn't a man bashing fest it is just something I have noticed.

Men are becoming so much lazier. Ok let me rephrase that...MOST men are becoming lazier. I say that because I know some boys who are very creative. But as I was saying, it seems as if boys and men are losing their abilities to "romance". I don't necessarily think this is their fault as women are letting it become easier for them to get in their pants. Yea, bluntly put that is what is happening. Anyways, what would it take for a guy to actually think on their own? No, no, no they don't have to be like those crappy soap opera guys, but why can't they learn to think on their own? Women, and I say this because this is how I am too, are always having to tell men what is romantic and what isn't. It seems that a few years back, men did these simple acts of love on their own. Like writing letters or songs, or sending flowers. Now we have the internet, so it's like...love is a simulation.
Men should stop missing the point. Simply put. I mean for example, if you want me to notice you...GET OUT OF THE PLAY DOUGH MOLD AND GET ORIGANAL. I sound like a total man hater, but i'm really not. For those of you boys who truly are men, and can think on your own without needing a girl to tell you what to do, congrats, and let me tell you Hun, you’re a dying breed.

Heck if you have to, listen to some love songs. Reallllllly listen to the lyrics. You could probably get some ideas from the guys who write them. If you love the girl, show it to her. Go crazy and exclaim to her.  I would love to see something like, "I couldn't stop thinking about you girl, so I had to come see you...and I found these flowers along the way I hope you like them. Oh and while I was up last night thinking about you, I wrote you this letter." Ah..I just turned into the classic lovey-dovey girl, but I felt it was necessary to convey my message. I hope it was well worth it, because I’m using this as a wake up call!

Here are a few songs that I love that kind of show what me and other girls are looking for. Hoping for.
-The good left undone- (rise against) Classic bad-boy love song
-Whispers in the Dark- (Skillet) -Yes another bad boy song-
-Livin' Our Love Song- (Jason Michael Carol) -An amazing country love song-
-Your Guardian Angel- (The Red Jump...) -Tear worthy love song-
-I'd Do Anything- (Simple Plan) -A perfect example of desperate love =]-
-Standby me- (Pennywise) -Awesome remake of a classic
-Waiting All my life- (Rascal Flats) -Lovely song about innocent perfect love

Anyways, you get the point. And to make it simple...
Be creative and don't be afraid.
It's like a school project the more creative you get, the more points you get! And as a bonus, you'll even get your girl.

Good Luck!

I think this is a very acurate protrayal of a conversation between a man and a women. Just watch, it's great.

By Flight of the Choncords

So what do you think about Déjà vu? You know…the feeling that you know something before it actually happened and then it does happen. Or do you believe that it’s a matter of being able to guess? Has it ever happened with a person, where you meet them and you just somehow “know” that you know them?
The reason why I’m bringing this up is because I recently met someone, who we both swear we know each other…but there is no way we could have. I think it’s very unique when something like that happens, and I would love to hear about your experiences with it.
So…
Do tell!

J  

 

So how old were you when you stopped believing n the old guy? Why and how did that happen?

Is it just me, or do you think that people place way to much value on the number they see on the scale? I know that especially with girls, it’s like even if they look and feel good the number they see on the scale will determine everything for them. Why do people… average sized people concern themselves with weight loss? I think it was Carrie Underwood last, but on T.V recently she made a comment about how much weight she has lost. Ok now wait… She was a NORMAL looking girl and ok sure if she wants feel and look her best, that’s great but what about all the people out there who look up to her? When they see her losing weight, does that mean they will too? What about the young girls who watch her?
Personally, it’s has always bothered me when people talk about “How fat they are”. I think this is because, for one no one cares. I say this because friends don’t care what’s on the out side (or they are not supposed too) they care about the friendship and what’s on the inside. And for two… it seems to me (but I could be wrong) that if you don’t like how you look, why not go out and change it, or do something about it.
And last but not least… I want it known that Anorexia Nervosa truly is a disease. It is extremely hard to pull your self out of once you have fallen into it. So please, if you do have an anorexic friend, love them, encourage them, but do not indulge them. If they really want your attentions that bad, make it clear to them that they will have to do it in another way.
http://www.4women.gov/faq/easyread/anorexia-etr.htm
http://www.medicinenet.com/anorexia_nervosa/article.htm
http://www.medicinenet.com/bulimia/article.htm

When it comes to 2012…What are your opinions?
For those who don’t know, the supposed theory is that the world will end in some huge catastrophe by 2012…but there are others who think it will almost, have a “rebirth” if you will. What’s your opinion?

When you’re a teen, hormones and emotions are running wild. One minute you hate the boy who sat next to you in English last year, and the next you think the note he sent you was adorable. But how do you know, when those three little words we mutter so effortlessly become real? In my opinion, looking back on it...it was pointless to "Go out" with someone in middle school and even grade school. I mean honestly, how many times did you actually go on a date with your boyfriend when you were 9? Because honestly, I can count like one time I went to go see "Confessions of a Teenage drama queen" with a boy...and his mom sat behind us the entire time.

So you see my point.

So...what do you think is true love?
Are kids starting to date too young?
Are we throwing around the words I LOVE YOU too much?

So to start off the holiday season, I thought the appropriate topic should be teen suicide.
Ok ok, I know that’s not everyone’s favorite question, but still it is important.
My question for you is:
*Do you believe your friend's when they joke around about suicide?*
*What would you do if your friend mentioned something about it?*
*Or just post your opinion about it*

In my opinion, it's so hard to tell now days who is telling the truth or who is just doing it for attention.
Anyways, the reason why I've started this thread is because of something I read recently in a magazine, and maybe some have you have seen on the news. A thirteen year old girl named Megan Meier. She got involved with a cruel MySpace hoax and ended up committing suicide over it.
http://zarq.livejournal.com/683313.html (a live journal blog about it)


So basically it 's something I want you to think about :) especially before teasing another kid, because you never know how they might react to it.

And also, GOD BLESS the children who have already died and the ones who are thinking of doing it.

 

 

Popularity


So just how important is popularity nowadays? Is everyone still as obsessed with it as they were when they were younger? Where do you fit on in on the "Social Ladder" of life?
My opinion is that even though it is stupid and petty, most people aren’t as affected as they once were. It seems as if people my age are becoming less worried what the "The Cheerleaders and Jocks" have to say. No offence Cheerleaders and jocks :) What do you think?