Fyi, before I start, I want everyone who reads this to know that this isn't a man bashing fest it is just something I have noticed.
Men are becoming so much lazier. Ok let me rephrase that...MOST men are becoming lazier. I say that because I know some boys who are very creative. But as I was saying, it seems as if boys and men are losing their abilities to "romance". I don't necessarily think this is their fault as women are letting it become easier for them to get in their pants. Yea, bluntly put that is what is happening. Anyways, what would it take for a guy to actually think on their own? No, no, no they don't have to be like those crappy soap opera guys, but why can't they learn to think on their own? Women, and I say this because this is how I am too, are always having to tell men what is romantic and what isn't. It seems that a few years back, men did these simple acts of love on their own. Like writing letters or songs, or sending flowers. Now we have the internet, so it's like...love is a simulation.
Men should stop missing the point. Simply put. I mean for example, if you want me to notice you...GET OUT OF THE PLAY DOUGH MOLD AND GET ORIGANAL. I sound like a total man hater, but i'm really not. For those of you boys who truly are men, and can think on your own without needing a girl to tell you what to do, congrats, and let me tell you Hun, you’re a dying breed.
Heck if you have to, listen to some love songs. Reallllllly listen to the lyrics. You could probably get some ideas from the guys who write them. If you love the girl, show it to her. Go crazy and exclaim to her. I would love to see something like, "I couldn't stop thinking about you girl, so I had to come see you...and I found these flowers along the way I hope you like them. Oh and while I was up last night thinking about you, I wrote you this letter." Ah..I just turned into the classic lovey-dovey girl, but I felt it was necessary to convey my message. I hope it was well worth it, because I’m using this as a wake up call!
Here are a few songs that I love that kind of show what me and other girls are looking for. Hoping for.
-The good left undone- (rise against) Classic bad-boy love song
-Whispers in the Dark- (Skillet) -Yes another bad boy song-
-Livin' Our Love Song- (Jason Michael Carol) -An amazing country love song-
-Your Guardian Angel- (The Red Jump...) -Tear worthy love song-
-I'd Do Anything- (Simple Plan) -A perfect example of desperate love =]-
-Standby me- (Pennywise) -Awesome remake of a classic
-Waiting All my life- (Rascal Flats) -Lovely song about innocent perfect love
Anyways, you get the point. And to make it simple...
Be creative and don't be afraid.
It's like a school project the more creative you get, the more points you get! And as a bonus, you'll even get your girl.
Good Luck!
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